here is a little tip:
if you wish to express some nice feelings about seeing a person important to you*,
choose a b o u q u e t o f f l o w e r s
that you think the receiver will enjoy,
but also something that you like, too
G i v i n g s o m e t h i n g is about thinking of the other person,
and taking the chance to c o n n e c t with them.
When we in fact reach to wanting to express k i n d n e s s to others,
it means that we are somehow bonded.
Life is all about developing r e l a t i o n s h i p s,
while simmultaneously establishing o u r s e l v e s,
becoming day by day a little more of the person
we once d r e a m e d of b e c o m i n g .
* however lot might argue that this involves mostly women, there are men out there too
who enjoy something fresh! There are green leaves plants + succulents for example.
Perhaps they will appreciate the chance to experience the more caring side in them.
Just saying : )
In a society where roles sometimes seem imposed,
encouraging people to become t h e i r f u l l e s t s e l v e s is something wonderful.
Women have more masculine sides, too
{ talks a lady who happily grabs anything related to Black & Decker! }
men have more femine sides, too.
The magic in relation ships is to accept one another as we are.
Then a l l p o s s i b l e t r a n s f o r m a t i o n s are well... possible!
Love c a n n o t be based on force, mistrust, punishment and expectations.
That way it is truly "doomed" to fail.
So to return to a p o s i t i v e & g r a c e f u l mood:
if you will offer flowers,
how about grabbing some w h i t i s h t r a n s p a r e n t b a k i n g p a p e ,
and embracing the bouquet with a few rounds of it?
{ I used two sheets here}
Add a kind of discrete & delicate ribbon,
let your i n t e n t i o n s & f e e l i n g s speak for themselves.
Enjoy the time with the ones you l o v e !
Warmly,
Iro
p.s: thank you so much for every one of your comments! I read them all, in whichever language and take so much joy! I'll make time to come write a few words personally to each one of you again.
